Am I asking VSD to do something it can't do?
No.
Apparently I am not placing all the files over to the correct location
This is true. If your menu is showing up as text with bullets, then you did not get all the files uploaded to the correct directory. It's not hard if you take a deep breath and go slowly at first. I know it can get frustrating but the program uses subdirectories and it is important to get everything just right. There really should be only 1 file ( yourmenuname.html ) and one directory (yourmenuname). Both the directory and the html file will be in a directory called yourformname_exported, after you export the menu. Do not upload the _exported folder, just the files and directory contained within it.
When I ask for a "preview" what I get is a vertical menu with bullets.
I missed this. This is what you will get in a 'preview' in VSD if you have not added the files and folders using the 'Edit/Add Files' option. If you go this route you need to make sure to add ALL the files and folders contained in the _exported folder. It will work if you get them all. Problem doing it that way is that every time you change your menu you will have to delete and re-add all the files. I find it easier to just FTP the files to my server then view the menu live after I publish my web site.
I'm going to be busy for a while. If you still need more help, publish your site to a test directory and post a link to it here so folks can see what you have. Someone will be able to help you out I'm sure.
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