My advice is when troubleshooting issues whether it be a computer or an automobile or any other device one needs to move from general to the specific very systematically much like a scientist. The clues to my problem were not all Vista users of VSD were having upload issues, and internal FTP capabilities in other coffee cup software hung up and that I had recently added SP! to Vista and lastly because I had been traveling had set the firewall to a higher than usual level. The customer care staff helped me to methodically work my way to a solution and an aha moment.
Lastly while it is very easy to blame software releases, people, hosts, operating systems etc getting upset and anxious rarely solves the problem, however enlisting others help in a gracious and patient manner will in most cases result in an acceptable solution. Lastly, I have found these forums to be very helpful and the Coffee Cup customer care staff priceless when it comes to these issues. Thanks to Scott and all of the people at Coffee Cup my experience web site developing are a bit easier.