What got me on the responsive design (RD) path was seeing my various VSD sites on small screens. Being static, they don't really shrink to fit and one has to do a lot of zooming, pinching, swiping... to take in a page (and I have a hard time tapping those teeny shrunken links on small screens).The thought of separate sites for phones and PCs wasn't too appealing – plus that opens another can of worms... what about different phone screen sizes then? And pads, netbooks, giant TV screens?
I've taken to getting the layout where it looks pretty good at any size, then adding in some media queries to refine it. For example, a nav bar with 7 links that spans the full width of the site can look messy when the site is viewed at small laptop or pad size; maybe 2 of those links now drop below the other 5. Go a bit smaller and they're jumbled over 3 lines. They're also quite a bit smaller, so harder to tap just one with your finger. Adding some media queries can allow for adjusting the link/button/font sizes as needed – like a single full width vertical menu with a larger font on phone screens and back to the horizontal layout with slightly smaller buttons/fonts for a pad size so everything stays on one line.
Working part time in a coffee shop that offers free wi-fi, I've seen how much computer usage has changed over even the last 2 – 3 years. Many young people use their phones as their only PC. In spite of all the hype about the "death of netbooks", I see them in use every day. I see more netbooks than pads in fact. I also know 3 people who only use an ipad (no phone, no laptop). Two different customers bring in 22" monitors along with their laptops

Casual conversations tell me that many phone users do not like mobile versions of websites and will go the the full site instead.
I just can't imagine having to maintain and update 3+ versions of every site, and with so many responsive sites out there already, phone and pad/netbook users will gravitate towards sites that accommodate them rather than putting up with a less than optimal experience.
Besides, it's fun to shrink/expand the browser window over and over to watch everything shift instead of actually getting some work done!

